Look at don Miguel Ruiz’s classic book The Four Agreements for clues on how to live a better life.
His
first Agreement is, “Be impeccable with your word.” Say what you mean and
speak in integrity. Use the power of your word to speak your truth and reject
gossip either from others or from yourself.
The
second Agreement is “Don’t take anything personally.” Nothing others do is
because of you. When you are immune from their misguided statements and
opinions, nothing can bring you down.
The
third Agreement is “Don’t make assumptions.” Ask questions and express what you
want. Open communication with others to negate misunderstandings, drama and
sadness.
The
final Agreement is “Always do your best.” Strive for excellence, not perfection.
A perfectionist doesn’t finish a job, he just abandons it. By doing your best,
you will avoid regret and self-judgment.
No
wonder that don Miguel Ruiz is one of Oprah’s favorite authors.
---Alan Batten for Unity of Charlotte
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